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Forget Family Feud, Make a Family Agreement
Forget “12 Angry Men,” I have five steamed-up siblings seated around my table. Estate and long-term care planning options sometimes favor...
Jul 30, 20242 min read
Communication is Key
The end of spring and early summer always brings me back to those last days of school and the feelings that accompanied them. Cleaning...
Jul 17, 20243 min read
An Education on Estate Planning
We all remember penmanship lessons. “Cursive” was a fitting word to describe those maddening swirls and lines that we drew on our lined...
Jul 2, 20242 min read
A Guide to Advocacy
You can chart the trajectory of your life by your sticker collection. My ancient albums held scratch-and-sniff stickers that smelled like...
Jun 18, 20242 min read
Love Notes to Your Family Caregiver
Look around your house. Put down the newspaper or iPhone, and let your eyes wander. You may see your spouse wandering aimlessly through...
Jun 4, 20243 min read
When Somone You Love Gets Sick
During a crisis, my goal is to prioritize the basic steps that will create order out of chaos. This clear-headed approach usually follows...
May 20, 20242 min read
Medicaid Warnings: Changing Seasons
Nursing home owners have had enough – and you should take notice. For decades, elder care attorneys and nursing home business offices...
May 7, 20243 min read
Estate Burdens & Opportunities
Here is my well-worn phrase of the day: “It is not what you say, but how you say it.” Family conversations infused with humanity and...
Apr 23, 20242 min read
Medicaid Marvels
I knew a guy. In the late 1990s, as a young elder-law-clerk-soon-to-be-attorney, the Medicaid system was wildly different than today. The...
Mar 19, 20242 min read
Probate Poetry: Clarifying Legal Complexities
My first clue that the study of law was not going to match my imagination began with the LSAT. Law school’s official standardized test...
Mar 5, 20242 min read
Navigate the Month of Love with Financial Finesse
Connecting Medicaid Planning to matters of the heart may seem unconventional, but the law is surprisingly sympathetic to your primary...
Feb 21, 20242 min read
Understanding Social Security Benefits
Living has its benefits. Stay alive long enough and the government pays you back some of the money you loaned it during your working...
Jan 30, 20242 min read
Reevaluate Your Estate Plan in 2024
I owe a big-time apology to the officials of Ellis Island. In all of our lives, there are little myths that masquerade as facts: Names –...
Jan 8, 20242 min read
If a Loved One Dies Without a Will
“I am not ready yet!” A Will is a very important document and the process should not be hurried. If the client wants to wait to make a...
Dec 26, 20233 min read
I’ll Be Home for Christmas
Part of an elder law attorney’s job is to turn festive and fun holidays into opportunities for serious, analytical reflection. Christmas...
Dec 12, 20232 min read
Estate Planning Talk at the Thanksgiving Table
Is there anything more heartwarming than the tradition of a turkey being pardoned by the president before Thanksgiving? Of course not....
Nov 28, 20232 min read
Estate Planning for Baby Boomers
Boomers do this and Millennials do that. Gen X, who knows? Ascribing personality traits to an entire generation has become a parlor game...
Nov 7, 20233 min read
Scary Estate Planning Mistakes
The arrival of fall is a special time for people who love to be scared. Haunted hayrides, fright nights and jack-o-lanterns aplenty...
Sep 26, 20233 min read
Estate Plans for Young Adults
As a professional, I rely on “scientific method” for determining societal views on aging. In common parlance, my “scientific method” is...
Sep 13, 20233 min read
Do College Students Need an Estate Plan?
Which of these three sentences is true? My pet octopus likes to be walked three times a day. An 18-year-old is an adult. Hudson Valley...
Aug 28, 20232 min read
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