The Elder Law Guide to Ghost Stories
My dad passed away before dawn on a January day in 2012. Hearing a phone ring at 4:30 a.m. activates a response so primal, so ancient, you could almost picture an ancestor feeling the same thing as they anticipate a saber tooth tiger attack on their cave. His doctor called me at that early hour and allowed me the time and space to react to the news. I will always appreciate her kindness. The time for mourning and reflection had to be postponed for a little while, as a 45-minu
Parental Protection Tools: Advance Directives
My dad was quite the character. For certain after-school activities, there was a pickup line of cars all waiting for their children to emerge at the appointed time. Dad had to be first… always. Not second, not fourth… first. Mom usually dropped me off and split. Her day was done. Dad would time it so that he arrived on scene not long after. With his daily copy of the New York Times or New York Post in hand, he would park and read. This was all fine with me, as I was able to g
Medicaid Planning Tips You Should Know
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Avoid Long-Term Care Planning Mistakes
1.) I am allowed to gift $19,000 to each of my children this year without filing a gift tax return under the IRS’s annual exclusion....
Medicaid Home Care Benefits in NY
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Protecting Your Child During College Years
I was reading something troubling the other day: For the first time in generations, chocolate chip ice cream is no longer a top 10...
Emergency Estate Planning During a Hospitalization
I was prepared to write a regular estate planning article tied into Independence Day with July Fourth and fireworks references – fitting...





