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Estate Planning: Your Personality Matters
Estate planning has a lot in common with travel planning. For many, a successful vacation is achieved through full itineraries –...
Oct 22, 20243 min read
Family, Family, Family
In my younger days, I made funny faces when I was photographed at family functions. It was nothing serious – a phase. I was 8, not 45 or...
Oct 8, 20242 min read
Legal Tips for College Students & Families
College tours have not changed much over the decades. Walk around the campus for an hour and a half, passing 37 dining halls – but not...
Sep 24, 20243 min read
Securing Your Estate for the Future
Is this what you thought the future would be? I’m not talking about cars that drive themselves (badly). Think about your family. For...
Sep 10, 20242 min read
Medicaid is Not Fooling Around
My grandmother taught me how to play poker. While I wish more time was dedicated to teaching me how to cook like her, instead of learning...
Aug 26, 20242 min read
Avoid Probate: The Art of Staying Alive
Estate planning meetings often lead to some pretty morbid conversations about life and death. “What if I get crushed by a boulder after I...
Aug 12, 20242 min read
Forget Family Feud, Make a Family Agreement
Forget “12 Angry Men,” I have five steamed-up siblings seated around my table. Estate and long-term care planning options sometimes favor...
Jul 30, 20242 min read
Communication is Key
The end of spring and early summer always brings me back to those last days of school and the feelings that accompanied them. Cleaning...
Jul 17, 20243 min read
An Education on Estate Planning
We all remember penmanship lessons. “Cursive” was a fitting word to describe those maddening swirls and lines that we drew on our lined...
Jul 2, 20242 min read
A Guide to Advocacy
You can chart the trajectory of your life by your sticker collection. My ancient albums held scratch-and-sniff stickers that smelled like...
Jun 18, 20242 min read
Love Notes to Your Family Caregiver
Look around your house. Put down the newspaper or iPhone, and let your eyes wander. You may see your spouse wandering aimlessly through...
Jun 4, 20243 min read
When Somone You Love Gets Sick
During a crisis, my goal is to prioritize the basic steps that will create order out of chaos. This clear-headed approach usually follows...
May 20, 20242 min read
Medicaid Warnings: Changing Seasons
Nursing home owners have had enough – and you should take notice. For decades, elder care attorneys and nursing home business offices...
May 7, 20243 min read
Estate Burdens & Opportunities
Here is my well-worn phrase of the day: “It is not what you say, but how you say it.” Family conversations infused with humanity and...
Apr 23, 20242 min read
Medicaid Marvels
I knew a guy. In the late 1990s, as a young elder-law-clerk-soon-to-be-attorney, the Medicaid system was wildly different than today. The...
Mar 19, 20242 min read
Probate Poetry: Clarifying Legal Complexities
My first clue that the study of law was not going to match my imagination began with the LSAT. Law school’s official standardized test...
Mar 5, 20242 min read
Navigate the Month of Love with Financial Finesse
Connecting Medicaid Planning to matters of the heart may seem unconventional, but the law is surprisingly sympathetic to your primary...
Feb 21, 20242 min read
Understanding Social Security Benefits
Living has its benefits. Stay alive long enough and the government pays you back some of the money you loaned it during your working...
Jan 30, 20242 min read
Reevaluate Your Estate Plan in 2024
I owe a big-time apology to the officials of Ellis Island. In all of our lives, there are little myths that masquerade as facts: Names –...
Jan 8, 20242 min read
If a Loved One Dies Without a Will
“I am not ready yet!” A Will is a very important document and the process should not be hurried. If the client wants to wait to make a...
Dec 26, 20233 min read
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